Dark standards

I can't help it: I listen to others' conversations while they chit chat on their cellphones in metro or bus stations.

Yesterday I was sitting by this young, handsome, black guy who involuntary disclosed his love life out and loud to the bystanders of Oberkampf metro stop. I obviously could not get the whole story but all I understood is that he had been dating a white girl. Apparently white girls did not meet his black standards. "No brother", he said to his interlocutor, "to play is ok, but to marry...I want to do like Obama, choose one of ours".

This sentence amused me for a second, shocked me for a minute and terrified me immediately after.

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