A- The Indian way is: your parents tell you to marry and then you learn how to love your assigned lifelong partner, you learn how to enjoy the pleasures of sex and the pros and cons of cohabitation and bed-sharing. B- The Western way is: you have sex, you fall in love, you enjoy the pleasures till you marry, you realized it was not love and then you divorce. C- In Albania I met the third way: somebody wants to marry you because tradition dictates so, but this ex-Ottoman tiny territory is already too western to obey tradition, you fall in love, you decide whom to marry after a plethora of fortunate and unfortunate looking partners and arguments at home, you feel in love, you feel so in love that you need lovers, you enjoy the carnal pleasures, yeah you do, somebody finds out about your extra-marital practices, everybody gossips, you realized it was not love and you want to divorce but you decide that having a partner and a lover is better indeed. Luckily, durable, happy love might also ...